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PostSubject: I can't take compilments   Sun Jan 18, 2009 10:33 pm

I find this very odd. I was at my sisters birthday party and I had half of my portfolio in the house. My mom yelled hey, lets all watch David's videos now for 10 minutes. Now, I know all my family will only praise me for my efforts because they have no idea what I do, but for some reason I really didn't want it. I told my dad straight up, I don't like all this attention and praise. I simply don't know how to take it. I love making videos and I think there amazing. Until I see them a couples times and I see what I could have done better and don't care for them anymore. I really don't understand, everyone was clapping and such after seeing them, but I can't help but think it was obligatory. I don't know why, in person, I really don't like being praised by more than one person, its just awkward and I don't like it lol.

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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Sun Jan 18, 2009 11:36 pm

lol i have the same problem
i hate when someone applaudes at something i did.
and i kinda know they hated it.
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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Sun Jan 18, 2009 11:41 pm

I hate that feeling lol. Like the title screen of my video had these jazz beat and there like ha! nice music then when it started it was playing rap and everyone was dead silent. I'm like ****. Also, people would not stop the bad jokes, its just guh, damn this false praise! Its torture

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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Sun Jan 18, 2009 11:43 pm

hahaha yeah.
the bad jokes.damn them...
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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Mon Jan 19, 2009 12:24 am

yea lol
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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Mon Jan 19, 2009 8:23 pm

i dont like all the adoration either. that usually happens with large groups of adults. i find it best to just show your work to a couple people at a time. my cousin, prolly 27 came by the house, i think his gf is 24, and the subject of my photography came up. i asked if thy would like to see it. i didnt invite the whole family (my grandparents were also there) up to my room.just 2 people. that way they dont feel obligated to go "oooohhh look at you" they

here is the same thing only in the real world. ever watch something really funny on the tv by yourself? you may chuckle. but if someone is in the room with you, you audibly laugh? idk why that is, but i think it is the same reason as praise

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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Mon Jan 19, 2009 9:14 pm

Yeah, its just uncomfortable and it feels fake.
Like I'd rather someone (one person) say good job to me then for a big group to clap and cheer

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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Mon Jan 19, 2009 9:40 pm

i like when ppl tell me what went wrong and what i need to correct.
thats the kind of compliments i like to hear
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"AMAZING OMFGBBQ I LOVE YOU MARRY ME!"
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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Mon Jan 19, 2009 10:20 pm

constructive criticisim hurts, but it is the only way to get better at your craft

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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Tue Jan 20, 2009 12:36 am

i love attention... i try to do well at most things simply for a good job and a high 5 lol
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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Tue Jan 20, 2009 12:45 am

THE TODD

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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Tue Jan 20, 2009 2:04 am

someone loves scrubs

LOST IS ON TOMORROW!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YES OMG

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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Tue Jan 20, 2009 2:17 pm

wtf?
that was a rly strange moment tvm...
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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Tue Jan 20, 2009 2:47 pm

lost the tv show

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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Tue Jan 20, 2009 5:58 pm

How is that strange?

LAST DAY OF CLASS TOMORROW
omgwtfbbqDRAINAGE

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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Tue Jan 20, 2009 10:23 pm

why last day of class?
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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Tue Jan 20, 2009 10:59 pm

Till exams and new semester

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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Tue Jan 20, 2009 11:33 pm

mmmkay.
good luck mate...
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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Wed Jan 21, 2009 3:37 am

study up. go out with a bang

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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Wed Jan 21, 2009 12:04 pm

Study time!

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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Wed Jan 21, 2009 3:07 pm

to the studymobile!
*tununununununununununu STUDYYYYYY *
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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Sat Jan 24, 2009 8:11 pm

Well, I tend to be the same way. Hate compliments since they seem fake and just hate being a centre of attention. Which is why I refuse to play guitar in front of people! And a few videos my friends and I made for a laugh, havent been able to escape those after 4 years.... Thankfully teenage lads dont feel compelled to say "Thats awesome" and are more likely to say "Thats good, but its **** that you didnt have such and such". Or just "Thats ****"
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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Sat Jan 24, 2009 8:45 pm

Ahaha yeah
If one of your friends says, that is good
That is the furtherest you want

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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Sat Jan 24, 2009 8:52 pm

Probably the worst thing is playing guitar, KNOWING you made a load of mistakes and it didnt sound right, and they say it was great. Though, my guitar teacher made a good point. "Play fast, play loud. As long as what you are playing sounds right and looks hard, people who dont play are going to think its great" Wise words...
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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Sat Jan 24, 2009 8:53 pm

Yeah ahaha
People don't even care what it sounds like
Holy **** man look at his fingers go

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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Thu Mar 12, 2009 9:53 pm

Haha yeah blind praise is annoying if its sincere then it's ok though even though it embareses me. (my spelling blows tonight lol) I don't mind criticism though if its constructive like you did good at this this and this but this needs this and. Stuff like that is the best to me. Not that I really do anything praise worthy anyway lol.
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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Thu Mar 12, 2009 11:22 pm

Blackstar you are a legendary reviewer who deserves $100 a day and Cleopatra and Helen of Troy


(lol compliments)

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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Fri Mar 13, 2009 12:04 am

I'll accept that Wink lol.
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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Fri Mar 13, 2009 11:20 pm

I think in a way we all hate compliments ,but when someone gives you one its just best to say thank you and move on . When you want compliments there is never anythere ...
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PostSubject: Re: I can't take compilments   Sat Mar 14, 2009 5:24 pm

Thats true....soo true..
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